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When you are in a relationship how do you act, how do you show your love???
The Moon is more profound and deeper than the Venus because Moon is our emotions. When I am in a relationship I feel my Moon is very important. I want freedom, excitment, spontaneity, I want to be close but not too close, also want passion and lots of sex.
I have Scorpio Sun so I feel my Sun qualities are always alive in a committed relationship.
I feel my love is a blend of my Sun, Moon and Venus(in Sagittarius).
I attract 'unusual' men, intellectual men, and mysterious soft-spoken men.
The Moon is more profound and deeper than the Venus because Moon is our emotions. When I am in a relationship I feel my Moon is very important. I want freedom, excitment, spontaneity, I want to be close but not too close, also want passion and lots of sex.
I have Scorpio Sun so I feel my Sun qualities are always alive in a committed relationship.
I feel my love is a blend of my Sun, Moon and Venus(in Sagittarius).
I attract 'unusual' men, intellectual men, and mysterious soft-spoken men.
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Re: How do you act in love?
Thu, January 1, 2009 - 4:46 PMof course I forgot Aqua Moon people don't talk about their feelings LOL. -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Thu, January 1, 2009 - 4:56 PMhaha. :)
I have Sag Sun, Aqua Moon, and Venus in Scorpio...so we have probably a similar energy? Just coming from different planets...
I can definitely have that Scorpionic intense, obsessive longing/lust/crushing for someone. But the few people I've felt that way for I really never got the chance to be in an actual relationship with, so it's hard to say that I ever really cultivated love with them. I guess it is love at some level...but it's totally different than when you actually are in a relationship.
In my love relationships, I like independence for sure. Open relationships are very good for me. Even if I don't act upon them, (and actually I really don't act on them physically) I like the knowledge that it's okay if I do. And since I like those intense crushes that never fully materialize, it allows me to not feel guilty about them.
I do have some jealous/possessiveness issues sometimes in relationships, though. Not bad, but the Venus does show itself there, too. Maybe for me the Venus is the way I *attract* love, but the Moon is the way I give love once it's mutual??? Hell, I don't know.
But with Sag and Aquarius in me, I definitely have to have my freedom. It's helpful if the other person is in line with my political beliefs, etc., or at least will give me the freedom to have them without making me feel oppressed by their own intolerance. They don't have to agree with me spiritually as long as they respect my beliefs and consider them valid. I'll do the same for them.
Physical affection is also very nice! I like showing my love that way. :) -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Mon, January 5, 2009 - 6:48 PMoh yes we have the same energy LOL.
"at least will give me the freedom to have them without making me feel oppressed by their own intolerance. They don't have to agree with me spiritually as long as they respect my beliefs and consider them valid. I'll do the same for them."
AMEN!
My moon in Aquarius makes me totally loyal, friendly, and honest and open with my lover. -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Wed, February 25, 2009 - 9:14 PMIf the other person gets too smothering of my feeling for freedom I dont like it, it kind of repulses me, I like it if its mutual, but if the other person is too affectionate or clingy in any way it feels wrong to me and I need to go for some 'air'! -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Thu, February 26, 2009 - 8:50 AMMagnets, that is very true of me, too.
The trouble is, culturally it is expected for most couples to really cling to each other, so there are a lot of expectations in this regard. That can be tough to deal with. -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Thu, February 26, 2009 - 5:05 PMuhuh.
I feel the need for freedom goes further, for me I am the only female I know that isnt keen on marriage, as much as I am happy in my relationship and we are very close, we both dont feel we aspire to that or need it . Security is not about that for our relationship. We have been together for about 10 yrs and people are shocked when they find that out and know we arent married. I think that is rather closed minded but I guess people cling to a sense of normality or structure in this world we live in. -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Fri, February 27, 2009 - 10:46 AMI have been in a long-distance relationship with the same guy for over 20 years now. I never told my family earlier on because I did not want to be constantly quizzed and pressurised into getting married.
And they still do. I went to my parents' golden wedding anniversary last Summer, my mother told me that 'there were hotels and guesthouses where my boyfirned could stay, and on the one time we both bth stay at our parents' house, it was under a massive pall of social disapproval. Meanwhile, the next-door neighbour started quizzing me at the party, asking me 'if anything was gong to come of my relationship.'
As if it was any of her business.
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Re: How do you act in love?
Fri, February 27, 2009 - 5:51 PMGeez. It has been so long that I don't even want it anymore. My life is so much easier and peaceful without it. -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Sat, March 14, 2009 - 9:10 AMthis is an interesting thread,,,I can relate with mutual attraction and the
existance of the spaces in between,,,,, i am really good at allowing people space,,,
In relations i look for friendship, companionship, and affection,,which is also
another way of saying mutual respect,,,,
its nice to know that there are people who have made their own relationships,,,
I'm not allergic to having a relationship nor am I desperate to be in one,,,
that way I have an open-ness to the experience of the moment
which is sometimes a series of moments,,,, -
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Re: How do you act in love?
Sat, March 14, 2009 - 11:09 PMThat makes complete sense to me. I feel very much the same, especially in saying "In relations i look for friendship, companionship, and affection,,which is also another way of saying mutual respect,,,, ". I can't believe how many people miss something so basic.
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Re: How do you act in love?
Mon, June 1, 2009 - 10:31 AMEquality! And spunk. I absolutely loathe being with the follower types. I just want to shake them and say, hey, you can make up your own mind for once, you have one, it's there!
And no cling-on's. Wretched distaste for that as well. Although, I have Mars in Scorpio, so I want complete surrender and willingness to try anything in the sak.
Aquarius Moon, Venus Leo, Sun/Saturn/Jupiter Virgo stellium in the 12th. Asc, Pluto, Mercury conjunction, Mars in Scorpio. I've been married for 3 years. It's rough, I tell you that much. Aquarius Moon and the big M. It's something I think you have to work out as you go along. Try something new whenever possible. Ruts don't work well for Aq Moon natives.
I think sometimes my Sun Cancer Aq Moon husband would prefer someone a little more cuddly than I, but, it's just the way I am. I need space. Living with someone is big, you lose a lot of space from that alone. So, if I want to stay up in my head for awhile without being interupted, it's best I get to do that, or suffer the brooding Mars in Scorpio aftermath....:)
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Re: How do you act in love?
Tue, June 30, 2009 - 11:21 PMJen you said
"I absolutely loathe being with the follower types. I just want to shake them and say, hey, you can make up your own mind for once, you have one, it's there!
And no cling-on's. Wretched distaste for that as well"
You summed up what annoys me too!
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