Hi Lexie

Guilty as charged. I have been in a long-distance relationship for...a looong time. I could imagine that would not do for you, with Pisces Moon, Scorpio rising and Taurus sun...and nothing whatsoever in Aquarius.

The only things that stand out in your chart is that you do have a 1st house Uranus, so maybe there is more of a streak of independence in your make-up than you have been able to acknowledge so far. The second is that you do have a strong aspect between Venus and Saturn, so maybe therein oo is a possible answer - Saturn withholding from the Venusian desire for love. Aquarius could be argued to have two rulers - Saturn as well as Uranus.

So maybe, the people you are coming across are living out either an independent or withholding streak that does show up a little in your chart that are in contradiction to the main side of you that desires excusive intimacy.

Why not check out some inerpretations over the Net for 1st House Uranus and look to see how much that may describe you, in addition to what you already know about the main features of your chart?

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Hey Lexie,
You made me laugh when you said you were 'heading into enemy territory". ha ha!

Well I am an Aqua moon and yes I relate to the need for space, this usually is something that will kick in for me when someone shows way too much interest in me to the point that I feel smothered.

If I like the person as intensely as they like me, well I am less aloof BUT they still have to play it cool in my book as I get turned off by too early or intense emotional displays or even if it is not obvious but you can see the person is too interested by body language.

I just dont like (and I dare say most Aqua moons are the same) over the top emotions too early on or too much information about how someone feels about me UNLESS i am ready to go there myself and I feel its justified based on having shared intimacy and time together that it doesnt come off as needy or clingy and potentially impinging on my need for emotional mental freedom. Phew!

I think what I have just said typifies the Aqua moon, at least the ones I know. I would just say - be wary of giving off signals of being too clingly, starry eyed or overly taken by the Aqua moon person, they wont like it.

Now heres the contradiction that may throw as spanner in the works, but this is to help you get the balance just right.

Dont get me wrong ..........We DO like people to show interest in us, but we prefer it on a MENTAL, INTELLECTUAL level, not a mushy overly emotional level. We like to feel like there is an element of mystery and excitement to a person that we are already attracted to, so keeping a sense of mystery about you whilst engaging the Aqua Moons fascination with information /conversation that is detached but interesting.

You are probably thinking, geez they dont ask for much....? I know, I know, we are very contradictory creatures. Hey i just realised you have A Taurus moon, my partner has a Taurus moon too ;)

P.S I also agree with what someone else said above and I would add that if you keep encountering the same type of personality, it could be a shadow issue, ie, and unowned part of yourself that you havent gotten to know all that well yet, or that you need to explore in yourself. I know this is a bit abstract, but relationships often mirror things in our own psyche that are not owned.