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'She belongs to everyone, and yet to no one. Her love can be tender and inspired, but there will always be a vaguely elusive quality about it. Like all Aquarians, she may have an unconscious fear that desire for one person will imprison the spirit in some way, and keep her from being true to her one great love-freedom. Freedom to experiment and investigate and freedom to give time to humanity'.
Can anybody else relate to this? I think I am always aware of a need for my spirit to be free which can cause problems when it comes to maintaining a relationship...it just feels like a waste to spend all my time gazing into the eyes of one person, no matter how amazing I deem them to be, when there's a wonderful world out there to behold. When I'm with someone though, I am always faithful and would never dream of straying, yet I find it impossible to become completely absorbed in another person the way many other signs do...do any other Aquamoons/People with Aquarius in their chart feel like this? Is it fair to say we're elusive in love?
Can anybody else relate to this? I think I am always aware of a need for my spirit to be free which can cause problems when it comes to maintaining a relationship...it just feels like a waste to spend all my time gazing into the eyes of one person, no matter how amazing I deem them to be, when there's a wonderful world out there to behold. When I'm with someone though, I am always faithful and would never dream of straying, yet I find it impossible to become completely absorbed in another person the way many other signs do...do any other Aquamoons/People with Aquarius in their chart feel like this? Is it fair to say we're elusive in love?
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Re: Elusive in love??!
Wed, October 28, 2009 - 6:25 PMI totally identify. Except even in "straying" I don't see the problem. I am Leo with an Aqua Moon.
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Re: Elusive in love??!
Thu, October 29, 2009 - 10:46 AMYes, I do relate to this. That is how I knew I had an aqua moon. Before doing my chart and finding out, that is.
Someone also told me of a guy -Aquarius Moon - who would never hold hands or snog in public, because that smacked too much of ownership. I know where he was coming from in sapdes on that, too - there is a geeat deal of social control levied in the way it is decided who you 'belong' too. OK - the flip isde is that this way ypu can avoid unwlecome attention too.
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Re: Elusive in love??!
Mon, December 14, 2009 - 9:50 AMI can relate to that quote on a lot of levels. I have an Aquarius moon and often feel trapped when an emotional relationship gets too heavy. Like you said, no matter how amazing the person I'm with is, I have up to this point found it impossible to give 100% of myself. There is a fear of losing myself always present, and for that, I always make sure not to give someone my all. And it's not a matter of trust, or not thinking this person is "the one" - it's just fear. On a lot of levels it's frustrating to me, because I consciously acknowledge this inability to let go, but what can I do?
That's a question I pose to you - do you embrace this quality in yourself or does it bother you? I find I flit between respecting this ability to maintain my personal freedom at all times and wishing I had the courage to surrender it. I always seem to deem the latter as a romantic but naive approach though. It's frustrating. It's like my freedom is actually my prison. But then again my sun is in Leo, Aquas opposite, so everything about me is one big opposition. =]
